If you Hardcore Bikers have the guts, ask Dear Biker Abby for some advice. But beware of the answers you might receive because they come straight from the hip. Biker Abby will only answer questions from real Hardcore Bikers not Metric riders...... sorry. The are over 100 columns of very interesting Biker stories below. Whether you biker dating, on a biker date, or interested in joining a Harley personals website like BikerMatchmaking, this is the place to be. Hate, anger and resentment are destructive, eating away at the heart and soul of the person who carries them. They are absolutely incompatible with your own peace, joy and relaxation. Ugly emotions change who you are and contaminate every relationship you have. They can also take a physical toll on your body, including sleep disturbance, headaches, back spasms, and even heart attacks.

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Dear Abby:

 

after i ride my rigid 102 in stroker about 500 miles i end up with the thins...too much whiskey or too long a ride?

Signed:  sloppy

Dear Sloppy

You made my day.......lololololol. I would have to say too long a ride!

"Biker" Abby

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Dear Abby:

i left my "now" ex husband 2 yrs ago , since then my divorce is now final....he still calls nonstop, wants me back, he loves me...he made a huge mistake...BLAH< BLAH<BLAH...while hes calling leaving messages day n nite, friends have told me hes still with the girl he left me for...."we were married and together for 10 yrs" have 3 sons ...that now are with me ...he hasnt talked to them on the phone 1 time in these 2 yrs .....can a man really be that pyschotic, and stupid????

Signed: pinkie

Dear pinkie

I don't how I can say this.....................................................YES!!!!!       lolol

"Biker" Abby

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Dear Abby:

 

I have a boyfriend who claims to be an outlaw 1%er.  He has no bike no job and everybody owes him.  He stays out all nite, we are both 50 we look good.  lately I have been finding dildoes and womens clothes in his personal belongings.  He even has plastic boobs and panty hose in his size.  Do you think he is into some kinky stuff with out me?

Signed: bewildered in so.cal

Dear bewildered

I don't know if you would consider that a boyfriend. Maybe a cross-dresser?

"Biker" Abby

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Dear Abby:

I work with this guy and I've been sleeping with him (he's married) and now a guy in a MC is coming in and I'm really interested in him as he is me. The problem is my guy I've been messing with is gettin pissed..we are sponsoring a run for them and "my" guy wants me to ride with him and the MC guy(president btw) wants me to ride with him. I've told "my" guy he's married and has no claim on me and it would be disrepectful to tell the pres. of this MC no..he doesn't understand where I'm coming from. Am I wrong? Besides the fact I'm seeing a married man-am I wrong for wanting to get to know this other guy? My dead husband was in a MC so I'm used to that way of life and I kinda miss it..my boss keeps telling me not to go back to that way of life (being a patchholders ol lady) I don't know what to do--HELP!

Signed:  Rainey

Dear Rainey

Oh, you've come to the right place and from someone who's been there.........NO SLEEPING AROUND WITH MARRIED MEN and NO DATING PATCH HOLDERS! You need to respect yourself enough not to be in either one of those positions.....................do I really need to get into that??!!!???!!!??

"Biker" Abby

 
Dear Abby:

Im a 28 yrs old and divorced from my ol man for almost 3 yrs now. When he left he took his bike and left me wih some words which i dont take to seriously which was, no man will ever want a woman like you. Now im not perfect, im not a barbie doll size 3/4. Im a real woman and not a fatass either. But seems like everytime i meet a man who takes me riding and out somewhere its either they dont call back because i dont lay down and spread em or because i do. Im confused now, what should i do to meet a man who will actually call me back for another date or who wont stand me up,and one who dont care if on the 1st date if we have sex? Thank you 

Signed: rae

Dear rae

Respect yourself and screw what everyone else thinks. Have a goal in life (NOT A MAN) and reach for it. Have a purpose in life. The rest will follow. If you need counseling, get it! If you need to hang around a better group of people , do it! Once you think higher of yourself, the better job you will do when it comes to picking out a man.

"Biker" Abby


Dear Abby:

 

I just moved to a new state and I haven't seen to many biker dudes in the area.  This is causing me to joans!  I am horny and ready for some steamy machine. HELP!

Signed:  Reneme

Dear reneme

Best advice is to go to a local Harley Dealer or "Bike" shop (no japs) and just ask. You'll be amazed of all the secret watering holes!

"Biker" Abby

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Dear Abby:

having a hard time here. Husband passed away this Easter and i feel lost. Friends have backed off and although i'm really trying to move forward i feel so alone. What do i do? I 've joined matchmaking sites o try and meet someone but feel like its going no where. What should i do?

Signed:  Christine

Dear Christine

Unfortunately, time will help heal this void. You just have to stick it out and take one day at a time. Don't stop trying to move forward, it will all work out at the end..................I promise :)

"Biker" Abby

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Dear Abby:

 

I don't know if it's me or my ad but I can't get a bikerdate. I'm a long haired hippy from the 70's era and you would think that some cute biker gal out there would be interested. Is it my long hair, my age of 45, my lack of proper words or what? I NEED A DATE WITH SOME BIKER BABE OUT THERE! WHERE IS SHE? HELP ME PLEASE! Mel.

Signed:  Mel

Dear Mel

You can to the right place. Make sure when you place your ad to upload GOOD pictures of yourself and your bike!. Remember, you are trying to sell yourself. Shine baby shine!

"Biker" Abby

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Dear Abby:

I have been looking for someone who I had known since Jan. 2000. I know he is in Wisconsin. He was here in Oklahoma but, he was in a place for awhile. We had wrote for 3 years to one another. Now, since he had left from that place in April, 2004, I haven't heard from him at all. I have tried just about everything that I could think of to find him. I've looked in the residence whitepages on the internet and called everyone of them that has the same last name as he does. I've went to a website call Melissa Data and it had a list of all the places where he had been and the recent one is Viroqua, Wisconsin. I am still trying to find this one person. Right now, I had promised him alot of things as he had promised me but, since I haven't heard from him in over a year in which October 17th, 2003 was the last letter that I had gotten from him. I had prayed for him to write me or to contact me some how in a way that he knows. I am still at the last address of where I lived when I had!
 written to him. Would you, please, help me find this one person.

Signed:  Lost My Man in Wisconsin

Dear Lost

You must move on. What ever his reasons are his actions are speaking now. Don't be a sap. You should be thinking....HEY, I DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS. WHAT'S IT TAKE TO MAKE A PHONE CALL TO ME.....HE JUST LOST THE BEST THING OUT THERE.........and move on!!!!

"Biker" Abby

 
Dear Abby:

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN SPLIT YP FOR A COUPLE YEARS AND NOW HE IS LIVING WITH SOMEONE CLOSE BY AND TELLS ME HE IS VERY UNHAPPY AND WANTS TO COME HOME BUT HAS THINGS TO TAKE CARE OF FIRST LIKE BIKE WEEK IN DAYTONA. WHEN HE GETS BACK THEN HE WANTS TO LEAVE HER. I AM STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH MY HUSBAND PLEASE HELP ME I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO WAIT WHEN HIS CHILDREN WANT HIM TO COME HOME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Signed:  LONELY FOR MY HUSBAND

Dear LONELY

I say this time after time..................MOVE ON! You need to feel that you in no way deserve to be treated like this and that you only deserve the best. And from what it sounds like......he is for sure, NOT THE BEST!

"Biker" Abby


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